When Henry Ward Beecher was a young boy in school, he learned a lesson in self confidence which he never forgot. He was called upon to recite in front of the class. He had hardly begun when the teacher interrupted with an emphatic, “No!” He started over and again the teacher thundered, “No!” Humiliated, Henry sat down. The next boy rose to recite and had just begun when the teacher shouted, “No!” This student, however, kept on with the recitation until he completed it. As he sat down, the teacher replied, “Very good!” Henry was irritated. ”I recited just as he did,” he complained to the teacher. But the instructor replied, “It is not enough to know your lesson, you must be sure. When you allowed me to stop you, it meant that you were uncertain. If the world says, ‘No!’ it is your business to say, ‘Yes!’ and prove it. Henry Ward Beecher, a prominent congregationalist clergyman, social reformer, abolitionist, and speaker in the mid to late 19th century. The world will say, ‘No!’ in a thousand ways. ‘No! You can’t do that.’ ‘No! You are wrong.’ ‘No! You are too old.’ ‘No! You are too young.’ ‘No! You are too weak.’ ‘No! It will never work.’ ‘No! You don’t have the education.’ ‘No! You don’t have the background.’ ‘No! You don’t have the money.’ ‘No! It can’t be done.’ And each ‘No!’ you hear has the potential to erode your confidence bit by bit until you quit all together. Though the world says, ‘No!’ to you today, you should be determined to say, ‘Yes!’ and prove it! ” Author: Steve Goodier
Bad Day
I was so close to tears. I could feel them just behind my eyelids threatening to spill out any second. I could feel my face crumpling into a little ball, my lip quivering...I needed a friend. I was surrounded by friends, but something was missing. And then I realized. I was having the worst day of my entire life, and NO ONE cared. I recently gained the status of "class clown", always the one they look toward for a laugh, and usually I'm happy to comply. But then I realized that due to my new position, nobody took me seriously any longer. Somehow everybody had forgotten that the class clown, no matter how silly, has feelings too. So I walked alone, apart from my group, and cradled my tears, not allowing myself to cry, when I felt a presence beside me. I looked up and there was a stranger, a boy I'd never met. "Are you okay?" he asked, and my tears began to fall. "Thanks," I said, smiling despite my tears. "For what?" he asked. "I needed that." I answered. -
My Heart Still Beats For You - Touching
After 1 years of break up....!
I found a message in my inbox... That message was my her...She wrote.... How is you dear .
Are you fine....
.
.
My first expression after reading that..... was shocking...... The girl..... whom i never want 2 remember.....
Has messaged me......!
.
Whole past get splashed inside my mind The time....We had spent together..... That time.... When we dream of our beautiful future....
.
The time...... when she said me, Baby......we will prove this world.....that true love really exists....
.
I just started crying.....by remembering that..... and suddenly i go pass by her profile......,
.
There i saw...... Her status..... It was written that.. ''In a relationship" with....Name of that guy..... And saw her whole profile.....
It was seem like....she loved that guy very much....
.
.
But i wanted to tell her.......That how much i love her..... but, now the time had changed....
.
.
My hand went to keyboard... fingers on the keys.....
.
.
I wrote.....
.
Umm, nice 2 see you happy with him.....!
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.
With smiling smiley...... And give her blessings...For her relation... she too wanted 2 say something.....!
.
.
But i know.........I should escape from her life...... As i don't want.....that our past splashes her new relation,
.
I simply said...... Wow, nice to see your message.... I am fine and very happy with my new girl friend...... Although i know,
i should not spoke that lie.....
.
But today also her happiness...... Is my first preference... Yes ., My Heart Still Beats For You...???
I found a message in my inbox... That message was my her...She wrote.... How is you dear .
Are you fine....
.
.
My first expression after reading that..... was shocking...... The girl..... whom i never want 2 remember.....
Has messaged me......!
.
Whole past get splashed inside my mind The time....We had spent together..... That time.... When we dream of our beautiful future....
.
The time...... when she said me, Baby......we will prove this world.....that true love really exists....
.
I just started crying.....by remembering that..... and suddenly i go pass by her profile......,
.
There i saw...... Her status..... It was written that.. ''In a relationship" with....Name of that guy..... And saw her whole profile.....
It was seem like....she loved that guy very much....
.
.
But i wanted to tell her.......That how much i love her..... but, now the time had changed....
.
.
My hand went to keyboard... fingers on the keys.....
.
.
I wrote.....
.
Umm, nice 2 see you happy with him.....!
.
.
With smiling smiley...... And give her blessings...For her relation... she too wanted 2 say something.....!
.
.
But i know.........I should escape from her life...... As i don't want.....that our past splashes her new relation,
.
I simply said...... Wow, nice to see your message.... I am fine and very happy with my new girl friend...... Although i know,
i should not spoke that lie.....
.
But today also her happiness...... Is my first preference... Yes ., My Heart Still Beats For You...???
Heart Touching Story
After 37 years of marriage. Jake dumped his wife for his Young secretary.
His new girlfriend demanded that they live in Jake and Edith's multi-million dollar home and since the man's lawyers were a little better he prevailed.
He gave Edith his now ex-wife just 3 days to move out. She spent the 1st day packing her belongings into boxes crates and suitcases.
On the 2nd day she had to movers come and collect her things.
On the 3rd day she sat down for the last time at their beautiful dining room table by candlelight put on some soft background music and feasted on a pound of shrimp a jar of caviar and a bottle of Chardonnay.
When she had finished she went into each and every room and stuffed half-eaten shrimp shells dipped in caviar into the hollow of all of the curtain rods. She then cleaned up the kitchen and left.
When the husband returned with his new girlfriend all was bliss for the first few days.
Then slowly the house began to smell. They tried everything cleaning mopping and airing the place out. Vents were checked for dead rodents and carpets were cleaned. Air fresheners were hung everywhere.
Exterminators were brought in to set off gas canisters during which they had to move out for a few days and in the end they even replaced the expensive wool carpeting. NOTHING WORKED.
People stopped coming over to visit. Repairman refused to work in the house.
The Maid quit.
Finally they could not take the stench any longer and decided to move.
A month later even through they had cut their price in half they could not find a buyer for their stinky house.
Word got out and eventually even the local realtors refused to return their calls. Finally they had to borrow a huge sum of money from the bank to purchase a new place.
The ex-wife called the man and asked how things were going. He told her the saga of the rotting house. She listened politely and said that she missed her old home terribly and would be willing to reduce her divorce settlement in exchange for getting the house back.
Knowing his ex-wife had no idea how bad the smell was he agreed on a price that was about 1/10th of what the house ha been worth, but only if she were to sign the papers that very day. She agreed and within the hour his lawyers delivered the paperwork.
A week later the man and his girlfriend stood smiling as they watched the moving company pack everything to take to their new home.
INCLUDING THE CURTAIN RODS
His new girlfriend demanded that they live in Jake and Edith's multi-million dollar home and since the man's lawyers were a little better he prevailed.
He gave Edith his now ex-wife just 3 days to move out. She spent the 1st day packing her belongings into boxes crates and suitcases.
On the 2nd day she had to movers come and collect her things.
On the 3rd day she sat down for the last time at their beautiful dining room table by candlelight put on some soft background music and feasted on a pound of shrimp a jar of caviar and a bottle of Chardonnay.
When she had finished she went into each and every room and stuffed half-eaten shrimp shells dipped in caviar into the hollow of all of the curtain rods. She then cleaned up the kitchen and left.
When the husband returned with his new girlfriend all was bliss for the first few days.
Then slowly the house began to smell. They tried everything cleaning mopping and airing the place out. Vents were checked for dead rodents and carpets were cleaned. Air fresheners were hung everywhere.
Exterminators were brought in to set off gas canisters during which they had to move out for a few days and in the end they even replaced the expensive wool carpeting. NOTHING WORKED.
People stopped coming over to visit. Repairman refused to work in the house.
The Maid quit.
Finally they could not take the stench any longer and decided to move.
A month later even through they had cut their price in half they could not find a buyer for their stinky house.
Word got out and eventually even the local realtors refused to return their calls. Finally they had to borrow a huge sum of money from the bank to purchase a new place.
The ex-wife called the man and asked how things were going. He told her the saga of the rotting house. She listened politely and said that she missed her old home terribly and would be willing to reduce her divorce settlement in exchange for getting the house back.
Knowing his ex-wife had no idea how bad the smell was he agreed on a price that was about 1/10th of what the house ha been worth, but only if she were to sign the papers that very day. She agreed and within the hour his lawyers delivered the paperwork.
A week later the man and his girlfriend stood smiling as they watched the moving company pack everything to take to their new home.
INCLUDING THE CURTAIN RODS
If you're struggling
If you're struggling, you deserve to make self-care a priority. Whether that means lying in bed all day, eating comfort food, putting off homework, crying, sleeping, rescheduling plans, finding an escape through a good book, watching your favorite tv show, or doing nothing at all — give yourself permission to put your healing first. Quiet the voice telling you to do more and be more, and today, whatever you do, let it be enough. Feel your feelings, breathe, and be gentle with yourself. Acknowledge that you’re doing the best you can to cope and survive. And trust that during this time of struggle, it’s enough.
What have I done recently that helped you
What have I done recently that helped you feel loved and appreciated?
This is a great question, not only to ask someone you care about, but also to ask yourself. Think about it. How are you showing your love and appreciation?
If you struggle with this question in any way, here’s a wake-up call for you: No matter how sure you are of someone’s love, it is always nice to be reminded of it. Loving someone and having them love you back is the most precious phenomenon in the world, and it should be expressed as such. When you truly love someone, be loving in words and deeds every single day. Don’t beat around the bush. Be straightforward.
If you appreciate someone today, tell them. If you adore someone today, show them. Hearts are often confused and broken by thoughtful words left unspoken, and loving deeds left undone. There might not be a tomorrow. Today is the day to express your love and admiration.
This is a great question, not only to ask someone you care about, but also to ask yourself. Think about it. How are you showing your love and appreciation?
If you struggle with this question in any way, here’s a wake-up call for you: No matter how sure you are of someone’s love, it is always nice to be reminded of it. Loving someone and having them love you back is the most precious phenomenon in the world, and it should be expressed as such. When you truly love someone, be loving in words and deeds every single day. Don’t beat around the bush. Be straightforward.
If you appreciate someone today, tell them. If you adore someone today, show them. Hearts are often confused and broken by thoughtful words left unspoken, and loving deeds left undone. There might not be a tomorrow. Today is the day to express your love and admiration.
A good rule of thumb
A good rule of thumb: If you can’t say it to their face, you shouldn't say it behind their back. As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, and small minds discuss people.” Life is much too short to waste talking about people, gossiping, and stirring up trouble that has no substance. If you don’t know, ask. If you don’t agree, say so. If you don’t like it, speak up. But never judge people behind their back. So stop gossiping and start communicating.
If you neglect your relationship
If you neglect your relationship, your relationship will neglect you too. So realize that today will never come again. Be a blessing. Be a friend. Be there for the one who matters most. Make a difference. Take time to care. Tell your significant other how special they are. Do something that encourages a smile and a brighter day. By doing so, you will not only help them, you will help yourself too. Because when you seek to inspire happiness in someone close to you, you will not only find it, you will become it.
No one in this world can expect anyone else to love
No one in this world can expect anyone else to love and respect them more than they are willing to love and respect themselves. Period.
So, if you want to awaken happiness in a relationship, start by living a life that makes you happy and then radiate your happiness into your relationship. If you want to eliminate suffering in a relationship, start by eliminating the dark and negative parts of yourself, and then radiate your positivity into your relationship. Truly, the greatest power you have in this world is the power of your own self-transformation. All the positive change you seek in any relationship starts with the one in the mirror.
Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the love, respect, and attention that you should be showing yourself. Today, look at yourself in the mirror and say, “I love you, and from now on I'm going to act like it.” It’s important to be nice to others, but it’s even more important to be nice to yourself.
When we practice self-love and self-respect, we give ourselves the opportunity to be happy. When we are happy, we become better friends, better family members, and better lovers.
So, if you want to awaken happiness in a relationship, start by living a life that makes you happy and then radiate your happiness into your relationship. If you want to eliminate suffering in a relationship, start by eliminating the dark and negative parts of yourself, and then radiate your positivity into your relationship. Truly, the greatest power you have in this world is the power of your own self-transformation. All the positive change you seek in any relationship starts with the one in the mirror.
Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the love, respect, and attention that you should be showing yourself. Today, look at yourself in the mirror and say, “I love you, and from now on I'm going to act like it.” It’s important to be nice to others, but it’s even more important to be nice to yourself.
When we practice self-love and self-respect, we give ourselves the opportunity to be happy. When we are happy, we become better friends, better family members, and better lovers.
Success never comes to look for you
Success never comes to look for you while you wait around thinking about it.
You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do. Knowledge is basically useless without action. Good things don’t come to those who wait; they come to those who work on meaningful goals. Ask yourself what’s really important and then have the courage to build your life around your answer.
And remember, if you wait until you feel 100% ready to begin, you’ll likely be waiting the rest of your life.
You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do. Knowledge is basically useless without action. Good things don’t come to those who wait; they come to those who work on meaningful goals. Ask yourself what’s really important and then have the courage to build your life around your answer.
And remember, if you wait until you feel 100% ready to begin, you’ll likely be waiting the rest of your life.
There is nothing more beautiful and powerful than a smile
There is nothing more beautiful and powerful than a smile that has struggled through the tears. Don’t regret your time, even the moments that were filled with hurt. Smile because you learned from it and gained the strength to rise above it. In the end, it’s not what you have been through that defines who you are; it’s how you got through it that has made you the person you are today, and the person you are capable of being tomorrow.
Nothing in life is ever wrong
Nothing in life is ever wrong. We learn from every step we take. Whatever you did today was a necessary step to get to tomorrow. So be proud of yourself. Maybe you are not as good as you want to be, or as great as you one day will be; but thanks to all the lessons you've learned along the way, you are so much better than you used to be.
Stay With True Love
Stay With True Love
♥ .. Love is emotion .. ♥♥ .. The name of devotion .. ♥
♥ .. Love is blind .. ♥
♥ .. The fate we write .. ♥
♥ .. Love is fire .. ♥
♥ .. Generate from desire .. ♥
♥ .. is dream .. ♥
♥ .. Love is hope .. ♥
♥ .. Love is passion .. ♥
♥ .. Love is fantasy .. ♥
♥ .. Love is pain .. ♥
♥ .. but like a rain .. ♥
♥ Stay With True Love ♥
Some say they are unlucky
Some say they are unlucky because they don’t get anything..Some say they are unlucky because they never get what they want..
But those are most unlucky…
Who get the chance to love the best…
but finally have to lose the best…
I have lived the time of my life…
I have smiled in the past..
Once I knew what happiness is…
But I have left that feeling back in the past forever..
I have smiled in the past..
Once I knew what happiness is…
But I have left that feeling back in the past forever..
I don’t remember that once there were nights
Which I spent without crying…
The breaths have become sighs…
‘n It seems so impossible for me to live anymore
Which I spent without crying…
The breaths have become sighs…
‘n It seems so impossible for me to live anymore
The day you left…was the day I died
All My senses died ‘n I’m just a Dead Soul.. !
All My senses died ‘n I’m just a Dead Soul.. !
Never ever put the only keys to your growth
Never ever put the only keys to your growth and happiness in someone else’s pocket. Relationships are not about authority and obedience; they’re agreements of love and respect. You simply can’t live your entire life through someone else’s fantasies. There must be compromise and the space to do what’s right for you, even if someone you care about disagrees. Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to loved ones, but don’t lose track of your inner voice in the process.
Never apologize for what you feel and what you don’t feel; that’s a betrayal of your truth. No matter how much advice people give you, sometimes you have to feel things out for yourself, make decisions on your own, experience things firsthand, and build your own conclusions from the ground up the old fashion way.
Never apologize for what you feel and what you don’t feel; that’s a betrayal of your truth. No matter how much advice people give you, sometimes you have to feel things out for yourself, make decisions on your own, experience things firsthand, and build your own conclusions from the ground up the old fashion way.
Arm yourself with courage today
Arm yourself with courage today to face the challenges in your life. You will not defeat everything that you face, but nothing is defeated until it is faced. Don't let the feelings of fear, uncertainty and discomfort stop you from making tough decisions.
Get out of bed. Turn off the television. Stop wasting time listening to negative conversations, including your own. Limit your distractions. Cancel your pity party. Pull yourself together and take total ownership for everything in your life. Don't waste your energy or take up space in your mind by blaming others or expecting them to rescue you. You are your knight in shining armor. You hold the key to unlocking your new future.
It doesn't matter how many times you have been knocked down. What matters most is that you continue to get back up. It's time to get it on and move your life forward by taking your power back. Place all bets on you and get busy!
Get out of bed. Turn off the television. Stop wasting time listening to negative conversations, including your own. Limit your distractions. Cancel your pity party. Pull yourself together and take total ownership for everything in your life. Don't waste your energy or take up space in your mind by blaming others or expecting them to rescue you. You are your knight in shining armor. You hold the key to unlocking your new future.
It doesn't matter how many times you have been knocked down. What matters most is that you continue to get back up. It's time to get it on and move your life forward by taking your power back. Place all bets on you and get busy!
There are people in your life who feel threatened
There are people in your life who feel threatened, jealous, and envious of who you are, and what you have going for you. Some of them just don't want anything for themselves, and have no ambition or motivation to do anything new. They either don’t know how to change, or don’t want to change. They will resist any effort on your part to influence their thinking, or change the way they are living their lives. If you keep them in your life, you may die inside along with your dreams, talents, and gifts.
Make up your mind that your life is too valuable, and your dreams and goals are too important to be compromised and hijacked by others. It takes courage to create a different life, and to separate yourself from anyone who is not for your highest good. You know who these people are! Have the courage to do what you know to pull yourself together, and move your life to the next level. This is your time! You deserve! ~ Les Brown
Make up your mind that your life is too valuable, and your dreams and goals are too important to be compromised and hijacked by others. It takes courage to create a different life, and to separate yourself from anyone who is not for your highest good. You know who these people are! Have the courage to do what you know to pull yourself together, and move your life to the next level. This is your time! You deserve! ~ Les Brown
Don't back down
Don't back down! Life will throw you some punches. Don't quit on your dream, your self, or your family. Refuse to be moved and stand your ground. Stay focused. Keep on working your plan. Ignore those who don't believe in you and your ability to have your dream. No matter what you're facing, believe this ~ You've got more in you...more energy, more power, more spirit, more courage, and more determination...to turn your life around. Continue to put one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward despite the obstacles that are facing you. Work through it... you can do this..YOU REALLY CAN! You have something special...you have GREATNESS within you!
Refuse to complain
Refuse to complain. Complaining is just a way of not taking responsibility, justifying doing nothing, and programming yourself to fail. Complaining creates the illusion that you have done something. Instead, pour your energy into improving your situation. When you find ways to be productive and maintain a sense of optimism, you demonstrate that you are in control of your own life.
Complainers focus on what has happened, and give up their power. Winners focus on making things happen, and using their power to find solutions to their challenges. You were born to create something magnificent with your life! Solution-based thinking gives you that power.
Complainers focus on what has happened, and give up their power. Winners focus on making things happen, and using their power to find solutions to their challenges. You were born to create something magnificent with your life! Solution-based thinking gives you that power.
You are stronger than you think you are
You are stronger than you think you are. It doesn't matter what you are facing...a lost relationship, job, bankruptcy, foreclosure, health challenge, or financial situation. You have the power in you to recreate it all over again from scratch. It does not matter how old you are. Don't beat yourself up. It's natural to feel sorry for yourself, or feel frightened and want to give up. It doesn't even matter if the people that you thought would have your back have deserted you. You are still breathing. You're still here, and you have the power to win.
You are more powerful than you think you are. Remind yourself of this. Stand up within yourself. Gather your mental, emotional, and spiritual strength, and speak from deep within your spirit and your soul. Take back your power Say..."I will survive. I will thrive. I am coming back. Giving up is not who I am. I will stay the course, and persist until I succeed." You might have to do this while down on your knees, praying, crying, and screaming at the top of your lungs. Resist the feeling of being overwhelmed, powerless, or being a victim. You will survive and thrive again!!!
You are more powerful than you think you are. Remind yourself of this. Stand up within yourself. Gather your mental, emotional, and spiritual strength, and speak from deep within your spirit and your soul. Take back your power Say..."I will survive. I will thrive. I am coming back. Giving up is not who I am. I will stay the course, and persist until I succeed." You might have to do this while down on your knees, praying, crying, and screaming at the top of your lungs. Resist the feeling of being overwhelmed, powerless, or being a victim. You will survive and thrive again!!!
It’s really painful to say goodbye
It’s really painful to say goodbye to someone that you don’t want to let go of, but it’s even more painful to hold on to them if they never wanted to stay in the first place. If someone doesn’t show you the same love that you show them, and acts as if you are unimportant most of the time, this may be a big clue as to the fact that you don’t need them in your life either. The only people you truly need in your life are those who respect you and want you to be in theirs.
If you say you’re going to do something
If you say you’re going to do something, DO IT! If you say you’re going to be somewhere, BE THERE! If you say you feel something, MEAN IT! If you can’t, won’t, and don’t, then DON’T LIE. It’s always better to tell people the truth up front. Don’t play games with people’s heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out; half-truths are no better than lies. Remember, love and friendship don’t hurt. Lying, cheating and messing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts. Never mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours. Always be open and honest. Keep your promises and tell the truth.
It’s not hard to find someone
It’s not hard to find someone who tells you they love you; it’s hard to find someone who actually means it. But you will find them eventually, so don’t rush love, and don’t settle. Find someone who isn’t afraid to admit they miss you. Someone who knows you’re not perfect, but appreciates you as you are. One who gives their heart completely. Someone who says, “I love you” and then proves it day in and day out. Find someone who wouldn’t mind waking up with you in the morning, seeing your wrinkles and grey hair, and then falls in love with you all over again.
There are three main things
There are three main things that we need to do when we make mistakes in life. Number one, ask for forgiveness. Number two, receive God’s mercy. And number three, move forward with your life. Let it go and press ahead. So many people today are still beating themselves down over something they did five years ago. They've asked God to forgive them a thousand times, but can’t let it go. They go around living depressed, defeated and feeling unworthy. If that’s you, realize today the price has already been paid. The first time you asked God to forgive you, He forgave you. Now you’ve got to receive God’s mercy and press ahead. That mistake did not change who you are to God. You may have made mistakes today, but still have God’s plan for your life intact. You are still the apple of God’s eye. You are still His most prized possession. God may not be pleased with every action, but He is pleased when you receive His forgiveness by faith. Are you still holding on to past mistakes rather than holding on to your destiny?
Be positive
Be positive when negativity surrounds you. Smile when others try to bring you down. It’s an easy way to maintain your enthusiasm and focus. When other people treat you poorly, keep being you. Don’t ever let someone else’s bitterness change the person you are. You can’t take things too personally, even if it seems personal. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them.
Above all, don’t ever change just to impress someone who says you’re not good enough. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a brighter future. People are going to talk regardless of what you do or how well you do it. So worry about yourself before you worry about what others think. If you believe strongly in something, don’t be afraid to fight for it. Great strength comes from overcoming what others think is impossible.
Above all, don’t ever change just to impress someone who says you’re not good enough. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a brighter future. People are going to talk regardless of what you do or how well you do it. So worry about yourself before you worry about what others think. If you believe strongly in something, don’t be afraid to fight for it. Great strength comes from overcoming what others think is impossible.
As we grow up
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances.
You just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.
You just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.
Let go of the rest
Just because one person rejects you doesn’t mean you need to reject yourself. Just because some people choose to disregard your worth and treat you without kindness doesn’t mean everyone will, and it certainly doesn’t mean you have to imitate their behavior. The truth is that the way other people treat us isn’t about us—it’s about them and their own struggles, insecurities, and limitations. You don’t have to allow their judgement to become your truth.
You may not be able to control what other people say or how they act, but you can always choose how you treat yourself. You can choose who you surround yourself with, and who you let go of. And no matter what your circumstances, you can choose to believe in yourself and your worth.
Because at the end of the day, trying to please everyone is exhausting and impossible. No matter how you change or who you become, there will always be someone who doesn’t approve. So instead of wasting your energy in a futile attempt to become someone that other people want you to be, give yourself permission to be exactly who you are. And know that who you are is exactly enough.
The right people will find their way into your life. These are the people who will love and accept you wholeheartedly and without conditions. These are the people who matter. Let go of the rest.
You may not be able to control what other people say or how they act, but you can always choose how you treat yourself. You can choose who you surround yourself with, and who you let go of. And no matter what your circumstances, you can choose to believe in yourself and your worth.
Because at the end of the day, trying to please everyone is exhausting and impossible. No matter how you change or who you become, there will always be someone who doesn’t approve. So instead of wasting your energy in a futile attempt to become someone that other people want you to be, give yourself permission to be exactly who you are. And know that who you are is exactly enough.
The right people will find their way into your life. These are the people who will love and accept you wholeheartedly and without conditions. These are the people who matter. Let go of the rest.
Love is special love is kind
Love is special love is kind
Love is sometimes hard to find
Love can hurt and love can mend
Love can bond you to a friend
Love means faith loves a must
Love means someone you can trust
Love is happy love is sad
Sometimes love can make you mad...
Love is deep and love is strong
And its important to admit when your wrong
Loves forever love is right
Love last morning, noon, and night
Love is medicine love is pure
Love's a disease that needs no cure
My love for him will never end
And I love Sandy my best friend
Love's the question Love's the answer
Love is music to the dancer
Love is how each of us cares
And teaching children how to share
Love is sometimes hard to find
Love can hurt and love can mend
Love can bond you to a friend
Love means faith loves a must
Love means someone you can trust
Love is happy love is sad
Sometimes love can make you mad...
Love is deep and love is strong
And its important to admit when your wrong
Loves forever love is right
Love last morning, noon, and night
Love is medicine love is pure
Love's a disease that needs no cure
My love for him will never end
And I love Sandy my best friend
Love's the question Love's the answer
Love is music to the dancer
Love is how each of us cares
And teaching children how to share
Truth
Truth No 1 :
Nobody Is Real In This World Except Mother..
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Truth No. 2 :
A Poor Person Has No Friends..
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Truth No. 3 :
People Do Not Like Good Thoughts They Like Good Looks..
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Truth No 4 :
People Respect The Money Not The Person..
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Truth No 5 :
The Person You Love The Most, Will Hurt You The Most !
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Truth No 6 :
“Truth Is Simple, But, The Moment YOU Try To Explain It…
It Becomes Difficult”
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Truth No 7 :
“When You Are Happy You Enjoy The Music”, But
“When You Are Sad, You Understand The Lyrics”.
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Truth No 8 :
IN LIFE Two Things Define You-
“Your Patience” When You Have Nothing…
&
“Your Attitude” When You Have Everything
Nobody Is Real In This World Except Mother..
.
Truth No. 2 :
A Poor Person Has No Friends..
.
Truth No. 3 :
People Do Not Like Good Thoughts They Like Good Looks..
.
Truth No 4 :
People Respect The Money Not The Person..
.
Truth No 5 :
The Person You Love The Most, Will Hurt You The Most !
.
Truth No 6 :
“Truth Is Simple, But, The Moment YOU Try To Explain It…
It Becomes Difficult”
.
Truth No 7 :
“When You Are Happy You Enjoy The Music”, But
“When You Are Sad, You Understand The Lyrics”.
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Truth No 8 :
IN LIFE Two Things Define You-
“Your Patience” When You Have Nothing…
&
“Your Attitude” When You Have Everything
I loved you from the very start
I loved you from the very start,
You stole my breath, embraced my heart.
Our life together has just begun,
You're part of me my little one.
As mother with child, each day I grew,
My mind was filled with thoughts of you.
I'd daydream of the things we'd share,
Like late-night bottles and teddy bears.
Like first steps and skinned knees,
Like bedtime stories and ABC's.
I thought of things you'd want to know,
Like how birds fly and flowers grow.
I thought of lessons I'd need to share,
Like standing tall and playing fair.
When I first saw your precious face,
I prayed your life be touched with grace.
I thanked the angels from above,
And promised you unending love.
"unknown
You stole my breath, embraced my heart.
Our life together has just begun,
You're part of me my little one.
As mother with child, each day I grew,
My mind was filled with thoughts of you.
I'd daydream of the things we'd share,
Like late-night bottles and teddy bears.
Like first steps and skinned knees,
Like bedtime stories and ABC's.
I thought of things you'd want to know,
Like how birds fly and flowers grow.
I thought of lessons I'd need to share,
Like standing tall and playing fair.
When I first saw your precious face,
I prayed your life be touched with grace.
I thanked the angels from above,
And promised you unending love.
"unknown
Perfect Love Is Not Receiving
Perfect Love Is Not Receiving
It’s Giving & Forgiving
Perfect Love Isn’t Red Roses On Valentine’s Day
It’s The Rest Of 364 Days Of Knowing U Love Someone
Perfect Love Is Nt Phone Calls & Stolen Kisses
It’s The Silent Smile In The Memory Of Ur Sweet Heart
Perfect Love Is Not A Grand wedding But
Spending A Life Time Together
Perfect Love Is Not The First Kiss & Make-up
Its Loving The ONE Who Annoys The Hell Out You
It’s Giving & Forgiving
Perfect Love Isn’t Red Roses On Valentine’s Day
It’s The Rest Of 364 Days Of Knowing U Love Someone
Perfect Love Is Nt Phone Calls & Stolen Kisses
It’s The Silent Smile In The Memory Of Ur Sweet Heart
Perfect Love Is Not A Grand wedding But
Spending A Life Time Together
Perfect Love Is Not The First Kiss & Make-up
Its Loving The ONE Who Annoys The Hell Out You
A REAL MAN
A REAL MAN
Never hurts a woman.
Be very careful when
You make a woman cry,
BECAUSE GOD COUNTS HER TEARS.
THE WOMAN
Came out of a man’s rib,
Not from his feet
To walk on,
Not from his head
To be superior,
But…..
From his side
To be equal.
Under the arm
To be protected,
And…
Next to the heart
To be loved
Never hurts a woman.
Be very careful when
You make a woman cry,
BECAUSE GOD COUNTS HER TEARS.
THE WOMAN
Came out of a man’s rib,
Not from his feet
To walk on,
Not from his head
To be superior,
But…..
From his side
To be equal.
Under the arm
To be protected,
And…
Next to the heart
To be loved
Best Quotes
1 What’s That? Uh-Huh… Is That So? Hamm… I See… Well F*** You Mr. Bear! You Speak Lies….Lies!!!
Ok, What Did You Break? What’s Your Excuse? And How Much Will It Cost Me?
Ok, What Did You Break? What’s Your Excuse? And How Much Will It Cost Me?
2 Cocaine Is God’s Ways Of Saying You're Making Too Much Money.
3 All Peace And No War Make Bush A Dull Boy.
4 Just When You Think You've Hit Bottom, Someone Throws You A Shovel.
5 After All Is Said And Done, A Hell Of A Lot More Is Said Than Done.
6 Fate Is Just What You Call It When You Don’t Know The Name Of The Person Screwing You Over.
7 If I’M Not Back In 5 Minutes…Wait Longer.
8 Always Remember You Are Unique, Just Like Everyone Else.
9 Life May Have No Meaning…Or Worse, It May Have A Meaning Of Which I Disapprove.
10 I Told My Psychiatrist That Everyone Hates Me. He Said I Was Being Ridiculous- Everyone Hasn't Met Me Yet.
11 Am I Getting Smart With You? How Would You Know?
12 I Didn't Say It Was Your Fault, I Said I Was Going To Blame You.
13 Everybody Is Somebody Else’s Weirdo.
14 Do Not Meddle In The Affairs Of Dragons Because, To Them, You Are Crunchy And Taste Good With Ketchup.
15 I Don't Have An Attitude Problem, You Have A Perception Problem.
16 Everyone Makes Mistakes; The Trick Is Making Them When No One’s Around.
17 Do You Have Trouble Making Up Your Mind? Well, Yes Or No?
18 The Most Exciting Word In Science Is Not ‘Eureka’ (I Found It) But ‘That’s Funny…’
19 I Stayed Up All Night Playing Poker With Tarot Cards. I Got A Full House And 4 People Died.
20 War Does Not Determine Who Is Right, Only Who Is Left.
21 Always Forgive You Enemies, Nothing Annoys Them More.
22 People Like You Are The Reason People Like Me Need Medication.
23 Kiss Me Twice. I’M Schizophrenic.
24 Live Fast, Die Young, And Leave A Good Looking Corpse Behind.
25 Death Is Life’S Way Of Telling You – You're Fired. Suicide Is Your Way Of Telling Life You Quit.
26 You’Re Not An Alcoholic Unless You Go To The Meetings.
27 I’Ve Given Up Trying To Escape From Reality; They Always Find Me Anyway.
28 If You Think There Is Good In Everybody, You Haven’T Met Everybody.
29 Next Time You Wave At Me, Use More Than One Finger, Please!
30 Roses Are Red, Violets Are Blue, And I Once Thought I Was Ugly, Until I Saw You!
25 Sad Quotes
1 – Every Man Has His Secret Sorrows Which The World Knows Not; And Often Times We Call A Man Cold When He Is Only Sad.
2 – It’S Sad When Someone You Know Becomes Someone You Knew.
3 – I Smile A Lot Because I Don’T Want People To See How Broken I Am Inside, But Sometimes I Wish That Someone Would See Through Me And Save Me From My Misery.
4 – God Only Knows What Went Wrong, That You Would Leave The Stage In The Middle Of A Song
5 – I’M Sitting Alone With Tears In My Eyes Trying Not To Cry
6 – Sometimes What You Want Is Not What You Need And What You Need Is Not What You Want!
7 – The Worst Thing About Being Single Is Being Alone, But It’S Even Worse To Be With Someone And Still Feel Alone.
8 – Says That Real Tears Are Not Those That Fall From The Eyes And Cover The Face, But Those That Fall From The Heart And Cover The Soul..
9 – Just Once I Want To Be Hard To Leave. I Want Someone To Stay Up All Night Thinking About Me.
10 – I Am Not Perfect And I Don’T Claim To Be I Try To Please Everyone But It Don’T Always Work, I Am Human I Do Have A Heart And It Can Be Broken!
11 – “Sometimes I Wish I Meant As Much To You As You Mean To Me”
12 – People Don’T Always Change. In Time They Show Who They Really Are
13 – Feeling Like Breaking Down, Maybe Even Taking A Break From Reality. Go In My Room, Turn The Music Up, & Kill The Lights In Case Someone Comes & Sees Me Crying
14 – People Change For Reasons Unexplained Things Change But There’S Always A Reason. Life Can’T Always Be Perfect; We Simply Have To Move On
15 – I Used To Think We Were Best Friends, But Now It’S Like We Were Never Friends At All.
16 – Sometimes You’Ll Find That The Saddest Songs Bring You The Most Comfort, And The Memories That Make You Cry Are The Happiest Ones You’Ll Ever Have
17 – I Smile And I Laugh But You Have No Idea How Sad, Lonely And Hurt I Am Inside
18 – I Decided To Become Cold Hearted And Don’t Care What Anyone Says Anymore Because I Am So Tired Of People’S Mean And Hateful Attitude And All The Shit.
19 – Sometimes There Is Nothing To Say. Just Take A Deep Breath And Walk Away.
20 – I Tell Myself “It Will All Be Okay. Everything Will Turn Out For The Best.” What I Want To Know Is, When Will I Believe Myself?
21 – Believes That Things Happen For A Reason, But Can’T Understand For What Reason, When Someone So Great Suddenly Leaves This Earth With No Time To Say Bye
22 – “It’S Sad How You Try To Care For Someone When They Can’T Even See The Good Side Of What You've Done For Them! Instead You Get All The Blame”
23 – Just Trying To Find My Place Right Now Feeling A Bit Lost
24 – I Have Done And Accomplished A Lot Of Difficult Things And I Know, Among Those Things, Missing You Is The Hardest
25 – Sometimes All We Really Need Is Someone To Wrap Us In A Big Hug And Say “Everything’S Gonna Be Okay”
Worlds best 8 Awesome Quotes
Worlds best 8 Awesome Quotes
Shakespeare.
“Never Play With The Feelings Of Others Because U May Win The Game But The Risk Is That U Will Surely Lose The Person For A Life Time”.
“Never Play With The Feelings Of Others Because U May Win The Game But The Risk Is That U Will Surely Lose The Person For A Life Time”.
Napoleon.
“The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people, But because of the silence of good people!”
“The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people, But because of the silence of good people!”
Einstein.
“I am thankful to all those who said NO to me It’s because of them I did it myself.”
“I am thankful to all those who said NO to me It’s because of them I did it myself.”
Abraham Lincoln.
“If friendship is your weakest point then U are the best person in the world.”
“If friendship is your weakest point then U are the best person in the world.”
Shakespeare.
“Laughing Faces Do Not Mean That There Is Absence Of Sorrow! But It Means That They Have The Ability To Deal With It”.
“Laughing Faces Do Not Mean That There Is Absence Of Sorrow! But It Means That They Have The Ability To Deal With It”.
William Arthur.
“Opportunities Are Like Sunrises, If You Wait Too Long You Can Miss Them”.
“Opportunities Are Like Sunrises, If You Wait Too Long You Can Miss Them”.
Hitler.
“When You Are In The Light, Everything Follows You, But When You Enter Into The Dark, Even Your Own Shadow Doesn’t Follow You.”
“When You Are In The Light, Everything Follows You, But When You Enter Into The Dark, Even Your Own Shadow Doesn’t Follow You.”
Shakespeare.
“Coin Always Makes Sound But The Currency Notes Are Always Silent. So When Your Value Increases Stay Quiet……
“Coin Always Makes Sound But The Currency Notes Are Always Silent. So When Your Value Increases Stay Quiet……
45 Life Lessons Written By A 90 Year Old
45 LIFE LESSONS, WRITTEN BY A 90 YEAR OLD
1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for things that matter.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27. Always choose Life.
28. Forgive but don’t forget.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.
42. The best is yet to come…
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for things that matter.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27. Always choose Life.
28. Forgive but don’t forget.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.
42. The best is yet to come…
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
12 signs that proves you are in love
2 signs that proves you are in love
- You’ll read his/her txts over and over again…
- You’ll walk really really slow while you’re with him/her…
- You’ll pretend 2 be shy whenever you’re with him/her…
- While thinking bout him/her…your heart will beat faster and faster…
- By listening to his/her voice…you’ll smile for no reason.
- While looking at him/her..you cant see the other people around you…you can only see that person…
- You’ll start listening to SLOW songs.
- He/She becomes all you think about
- You’ll get high just by their smell…
- You’ll realize that you’re always smiling to yourself when you think about them..
- You’ll do anything for him/her…
- While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time…..
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